Comment by Mela the explorer on Semantic Error - Chapter 86

@Mela the explorer  hey i have one question. I'm person who don't believe in catching feelings after years of friendship. I myself have bestie, but never thought about him like boyfriend material or etc. So did you have sympathy towards them from the begging of your frienship, or did you just developed feeling after? Cause i think that if you like someone, even for just a little bit, you know that from the first sight of that person ...

@Mela the explorer You dont fall in love with someone at the first  sight, atleast, not always. You can develop feelings after being with them for a while. It happened to me. There was a boy who was basically my enemy. Later we became friends and i didn't have any feeling for him then. But he treated me real nice, he said things i needed to hear, did things needed to be done, i couldn't help falling in love. But i didnt want our relation to be complicated also he was the ex of my ex-bestie so i didnt confess.  When he knew i loved him he said  he loved me too but he started treating me differently, even hit me, talked to other girls, so we broke up. But i couldnt forget him and kept being used as a doormat. Ill never forget the pain he put me through. Im completely over him now.
So yeah,   you can fall in love with your friend. Not everyone experiences love at first sight.

@iliveforyaoi so sorry to hear that, but i don't think that he loved you. You dont treat your significant other like that. Ye, there is not always love at first sight, but in my situation, I like that person or not. And i don't think i can fall in love with people that i already know. You know, when you meet someone you either have chemistry with then or not

@iliveforyaoi my situation definitely isn't a love at first sight, ive been like this since we started spending so much time together after we agrued badly and stopped our friendship for few months (sometimes you just need a break) and this one girl who wanted to keep me only for herself (she was this one toxic friend who i was very close to) disappeared from my life. We both started healing then and now we are much closer and open to getting to know more about each other. I also try to support her cause shes in her "changing for better for myself" era. I REALLY LIKE HOW THINGS ARE RIGHT NOW AND I DONT WANT TO CHANGE BUT ALSO WANT TO DO THINGS WHICH COUPLES DO WITH HER (I DID SOME OF THEM) BUT I DONT WANT TO RUIN THIS SO I CANT OPEN UP TO HER WITH MY FEELINGS.
few days ago she asked me "do you like me?" And I didnt want to respond SO I said that I like how things are now and she is mad because of this 😃

@Mela the explorer ye i think you shouldn't rush especially if she's in her healing process. I wish you good luck and happiness <3

@Tomri aw thx