Comment by artsy_amusing on Jinx - Chapter 66.5

Comment on ChapterJinx - Chapter 66.5
Jaekyung, Dan has PTSD...this is why he's acting like this fool. You still have yet to realize this. At one point, Dan was catching feelings, but now that he's had time away from you, he realizes it was more like Stockholm Syndrome. There was more bad than good during his time with you, and the only thing that's going to make him even remotely want to be around you, is you sincerely apologizing, then leaving him alone instead of trying to force him back. Let him decide on his own down the line, and only IF he wants to reconsider. S*x is s*x, but it's not a cure-all, just a bandaid on what's really wrong - YOU. Gotta change first before you deserve to be in his presence. S*x doesn't mean anything. You need to admit all your wrongdoings, beg for Dan's forgivness and give him space.

I will say, Jaekyung is starting to care about his approach to s*x when it comes to Dan, even in baby steps. He doesn't realize he almost bust immediately, because he jas feelings. Sleeping with someone is a while different experience when there are feelings involved.

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@artsy_amusing the problem with Jaekyung is that he is either too emotionally constipated, too narcissistic, or just lacks the emotional intelligence to realize he has feelings for Dan. Personally, I think it's a mix of all three. His ego prevents him from apologizing because he hates to admit that he was wrong. He is one of those people that thinks he does not need to talk about what happened in the past in order to move forward.