This spear hero rejected helping him coz 'my family says I should not be seen with you '
It's not validation but when your world, the real and the little delusions that keep us going, crumbles down on you, it's only fair to think the world abandoned you.
It's your relations that form your world after all. If all that vanishes, what world is there for you? When no one is even willing to help you form a new world, no one is willing to be there for you, no one is willing to turn a new page with you? What'd you do?
Such is the dilemma. Left with probably two choices!
1. Off himself
2. Become a hero (as is here)
Which would you rather? Keep in mind, his urge to live was overwhelming. As such, he ended up being left with only one choice. More like a destined outcome!
It's a novel/manhwa, but in real life, don't trash another person's opinion just coz you are biased or lack understanding of their circumstances
I can't even 
