He tried multiple times to assault him but it's justifiable because he "He had loved him since a kid"? How stupid can you be? Just because he had a terrible life, too, doesn't make his actions reasonable; would you kick someone's dog and then argue that yours died so you're allowed to express that grief in such a way?
Don't be stupid. Also, you're only acting like because the brother is drawn attractively, if he were ugly you'd pay him dust.