sorry, but jaeha being a victim of domestic violence does not justify that he has been possessive with kiwoon, I'm not saying he can't change, but he's not even trying, and it's not Hyun's duty to be his psychologist, I would understand if they had been friends at least.
Comment by luzzz on Serious Joke - Chapter 54
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LOL. It does, in many aspects. Do you need me to teach you about pyschology?? It is clear yo don't really know about psychology much and just some random facts about it??? The context is much deeper than what you sea on the surface, you see. Human mind, feelings, emotions are very complicated and sometimes twisted.
And the thing on "it's not Hyun's duty to be his psychologist", very wrong. It was Hyun's choice to be by his side because he cares for him. He is not trying to be his "psychologist" per see. Have you heard of someone you can lean on? Hyun is trying to be that. He wants Jaeha to depend on him, because he likes him and cares for him. Of course you'd want the person you like and care depend on you, right? That would be the biggest reward. Being needed and wanted. Being depended on....I hope you understand that.
Lol, you're saying obvious things, and I'm precisely complaining that the characters are illogical and too emotional, not because I don't understand, but because I don't like it.
It's not that he's trying, people, get the chance to try and change once they are out of an abusive situation. The domestic abuse is very much still a reality for Jaeha, any day Hyun could decide he should leave and he'd have to go back and face that same tale all over again. Jaeha will start to get better once he realises he's no longer in his former home. He's no longer under his abuser's thumb. Give him some time, his attitude with Kiwoon at the beginning wasn't right but that time is over, Kiwoon has gotten his closure and now it's time for Jaeha to get closure.
As for Hyun, him and Jaeha *were* friends, their relationship got shaky after the incident but they were friends. And Hyun isn't trying to be his psychologist, he's trying to help him feel comfortable and safe again. He isn't trying to diagnose him with a mental illness, he's trying to show him