@Yongbokieee let's use your logic here. So just because I've seen men do bad things to a women, like grape them or sum like that or "way worse", like you said, then that means it's okay for my man to do bad things to me, but people should praise him and our relationship because he's not doing "way worse" to md and he has "changed"?
Then you go on an say that he's NOT changed, hes still a grapist and sa'd him, but it's okay because "he loves him"? And you're not even sure about what you're saying!
Then again proceed to say how "thats how love works" and "your feelings aren't the same *every time" (can't even spell it right 🤦🏾♀️)
So you think it's okay that he got raped basically and sa'd but hey thats okay because "that's how love works". Isn't that a wonderful thing to think about?
It's so weird to me how r4pe colture and abusive relationships have basically the norm for people like you. Like would you like this type or relationship? Would you think it's okay for someone close to you lived like this? With someone who's basically manipulating them and using their trauma and weaknesses against them?
Then you go on an say that he's NOT changed, hes still a grapist and sa'd him, but it's okay because "he loves him"? And you're not even sure about what you're saying!
Then again proceed to say how "thats how love works" and "your feelings aren't the same *every time" (can't even spell it right 🤦🏾♀️)
So you think it's okay that he got raped basically and sa'd but hey thats okay because "that's how love works". Isn't that a wonderful thing to think about?
It's so weird to me how r4pe colture and abusive relationships have basically the norm for people like you. Like would you like this type or relationship? Would you think it's okay for someone close to you lived like this? With someone who's basically manipulating them and using their trauma and weaknesses against them?