You get frowns from that statement. Abuse is mentally taxing can can cause someone's heart to stop in some cases. Your mental health is crucial for a healthy lifestyle. Heres a small example that maybe easier to fix then most problems: everyone tells you, your fat dirty pig so you should eat like one. You get depressed, and you eat to fill the void cause your sad and want to be happy. But this doesn't solve the core issue and causes you to gain weight so the cycle continues til you find true happiness that would fill the void food could not fill. And once it was filled you start to lose weight without much effort as your not eating nearly as much. I hope this was a good simple example you can use to solve future problems. :3