Sigh I'm gonna get hate for this. To all girls here who are reading gay sm** to feel butterflies and are saying you don't like bl that doesn't have good sm** or jut plain out reading gay stories because they are so cute you ship them basically being obsessed with bl, I want to say it's called fetishism. You are fetishising gay love. And s** and relationship. Wholesome ally of gay relationship or reading for sake of reading feel different. Every one can sense your intentions. Stop it. It is as toxic as any other homophobic sh**. You want to like bl sure go ahead and like it but please like it for the same of story not for sake of fact that it's about two males being in love.
Sincerely,
A very weirded and uncomfortable gender fluid.
Comment by Aristocrat on Even If You Don't Love Me - Season.2 Chapter 32
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Get off your high horse. What an absolute hypocrite. If you can enjoy it, so can any other gender. Why are "girls" the only target in your verbal diarrhoea. Good content is good content. BL or otherwise. Whether anyone decides to read the sweetest , most innocent of BLs or the most mind numbing sm**, its none of your da** business. Thanks. 
@HOYEON I never said they can't enjoy it. They can. But don't you think and believe there is a difference between reading for sake of story between two people in love and reading for sake of love very specifically between two men? If I have to make a very crude and I apologize beforehand, a very rude and uncalled for comparison, it often times than not feels the same way as males fetishisize lesbian couples. Only difference is females won't ask a gay couple to have threesome with them. I'm not saying former is at same level as later. Indeed former is worst of the worst homophobic sh** one can go through. But later is not far off from it.
I would not stop anyone from reading anything they wish to read. I just wish people would think more throughly how their comments, actions and thoughts affects others. Everyone is free, but that does not mean we can disregard feelings of people around us. I apologize if my words hurt you. That was not my intention. My intention was to make people who fetishisize gay couples without realizing, think through their actions and have understanding.
Sincerely,
A person who perfers to stay away from horses.
tho they do have a point- BL is more or so targeted to women but like u d!ck riding so hop off and stop exposing me and i aint fetishizing BL i just like reading the dramazied stories and stuff though BL isnt the only thing i read i read other things like regular webtoons and manga and also i only read the first half of that paragraph you wrote so💀
sincerely,
a lil black person who doesnt like being called out bc i cry
First all you can't automatically assume that people or "women" read BL just for the sm** and s** scenes. They can read a BL without knowing that s** are in the story. You can't just call women fetishist just for reading something that they feel comfortable with reading. Don't assume that everyone is like that because in the end it can offend everyone who sees your comment.
Not all females but some females. Mhmm it seems similar right? I have nothing against females or their reading habits. Having a diverse reading habit and being knowledgeable is a good trait nothing against that.
But seriously am I the only one seeing a constant trend? Why does anything reach the point where it's cursed out in public? Everything starts from a small group of people liking something, marketers realize there is market for it, they market it doing their job, more people are exposed to it regardless of its content. More people like it, marketers realize it has more value and publicise it more and more without regards of ethics or even responsibility of providing correct information. And consumers use and or consume product without realizing it can be considered bad for the source of original inspiration. Yes lgbtq getting publicity is good, but perhaps I'm being a worry wart but endless publicity of something and consumption of said thing without conscious knowledge of why and whether it's harmful to oneself or source is how topics reach the point where they have to addressed on large scale.
if anyone reads it for fetish, its their time and their fantasies. Do you see "girls" in streets trying to make gay sm** only way to see gay people?
There are people who love to read ra** fantasies, loli fantasies, stories with antropomorphic "men" and "women" /animal like/ do you hate on them too? Do you worry about those topics too?
Everything is allowed in fantasy.
endless publicity of something and consumption of said thing without conscious knowledge of why and whether it's harmful to oneself ----this is literally happening with everything, people will always be as they are, who wants to know more about any topic, can do so, who is lazy to click on f...google to read more, is common i...t found anywhere and you cant stop them by making comment under gay stories, sorry
Just so you know, war is also under propaganda and for thousands of years and it did not stop people love it, hate it, study it...so dont worry about gays and their stories, they will be loved, hated, interpreted on 3000 different ways.... just as anything else
I'm A Girl And I'm Straight And I Support Lgbtq+
