Comment by Xoxo on Secret Love Affair - Chapter 59

@Xoxo I want no bottom riders crying under here..

@Xoxo I get where you're coming from, but I think it’s unfair to put all the blame on Inhwee alone. He’s definitely made mistakes—no one’s denying that—but it’s not like Jeongwon is innocent here either. Manipulation, controlling behavior, and lying aren’t "effort" either. Inhwee asking for a break and reflecting is something, even if it’s small. Both of them have faults, but it feels hypocritical to ignore one side while ripping into the other.

@burberrymin miss ma'am did you not read the whole comment? I said they both are liars and pathetic 🙄but that bottom h0e is too much .
Manipulation what ? 🤣🤣🤣😭is the bottom 5 years who will be manipulated the man of the age ? Controlling behavior? Where? I didn't read no chapters where jeaongwon was controlling to be honest and lying? Inwee has been lying more and much more than he ever did . 🥰
But bottom riders are blind.  Of course the seme taking him out on dates , being less touchy cause the bottom h0e didn't like it . Making it clear that he isn't single,  always caring about the selfish bottom h0e , and let's not forget when inwee asked if he had a relationship with that white haired women . He came clear.  
Miss ma'am the only hypocritical one is you bottom riders. You will pull any sh_t out to defend the bottoms ..that's why I said I don't want no bottom riders crying here.
They both are fault but unfortunately your dear pathetic bottom sh_t isn't recyclable. 
Please take this somewhere else.  
And 🥰Inwee isn't reflecting at all if he had reflected he wouldn't be such a b_tch and say the truth. 
Please take this somewhere else.

@burberrymin and miss ma'am 
You seem to have a v!Tim complex .not trynna be rude.but if the ml is that controlling why doesn't he breaks up ? Is he fu*** senseless with 0 brain cells?  When he ml just said he should move out completely why didn't he say yes ? 
Some people just love the feeling of playing the v^Tim so much . The seme has been like this from the start if He hated him that much why didn't he say a word but now he has become a literal as$hole cause he is putting him on spots .
You keep talking about the seme being a liar as if the bottom didn't lie ! 🤣🤣🤣😭😭 like he lied more ..didn't see you crying then why? 💀and that fuking h0e always enjoyed the fu*** before learning that he wasn't the only one who lied in start. Rewind back to few chapters and you will understand what I'm saying.  
V_tim complex is not a good thing.  The seme at least had things to say what about him? Nothing at all except lies . 
Honestly it I was that displeased with my boyfriend I would break up. Rather than trynna play the v_tim again and and again .. I mean what's the point of playing the v!Tim if you hate it that much ? Break up ? 
He is talking If the seme followed him . I remember him following the ml too multiple type but oh we aren't counting that are we ?

@Xoxo Miss ma’am, I don’t know what chapters you’re reading, but we can’t possibly be looking at the same manhwa. Controlling behavior? Manipulation? Yes, it’s right there in black and white—Jeongwon has been both. If you can’t see it, maybe a re-read is in order because gaslighting and sketchy, borderline abusive behavior aren’t exactly hidden.

You keep saying Inhwee has a "victim complex" or that he’s "playing the victim," but here’s a wild concept: maybe it’s because he is one. Are his mistakes excusable? No. Did he fu** up? Absolutely. But Jeongwon isn’t winning any Best Boyfriend awards either—this is the same guy who lied, manipulated, controlled situations to his favor, and oh, let’s not gloss over those rapey episodes you keep conveniently ignoring.

I’m not a "bottom rider," babe—I just have eyes and common sense. Blaming only Inhwee while excusing Jeongwon’s toxic behavior is wild. And yes, it’s fiction, but the things happening here reflect real-life situations that people actually deal with. So yeah, the way y’all talk about it does matter.

To reiterate: Inhwee is flawed, messy, and far from perfect. But Jeongwon? Lying, controlling, and manipulative—how’s that any better? At this point, if you’re gonna keep yelling about how "pathetic" Inhwee is, maybe take a look at the other half of this disaster of a relationship too.

And one last thing—if me calmly pointing out what’s literally happening in the story gets you this aggressive, maybe you should calm down. It’s not that deep.

@burberrymin like I said miss ma'am You bottom riders would gloss over the bottom no matter how sh_tty they are. It won't go inside your head and that's completely fine but cry somewhere else please.  
Manipulation in which chapter exactly? And what is Manipulation exactly.  Elaborate. And controlling how exactly? Whom exactly? In which chapter? 
Sorry miss ma'am I ain't reading any black and white sh_t . I'm reading what's served . 

V-tim of what exactly? 🤔his own lies ? And pathetic Ness.  
Miss ma'am again where in the world did I write that the seme is gonna win the best boyfriend award? Are your eyes working properly cause I called him a pathetic trash in my comments  please get help. 
And again sorry I am not seeing any Manipulation and controlling sh/t here . Please mention the episodes. And elaborate those words .
And lying they both are liars . Are you trynna gloss over his lies again. ? 
Never said there was no rapey scene again drawing your own conclusions.  

Miss ma'am You are a bottom rider cause you blindly defend bottoms . And again get your eyes checked I called them 💀out both but your dear bottom is beyond pathetic,  helpless and an unreachable trash. 
Why would I give 0 fu** what is happening in other life in real world ?
I have too much stuff on my plate .and you were a v-tim of Manipulation and any sh_t don't take out your personal feelings here

@Xoxo You know what? You’re right about one thing—you aren’t reading any black and white, because you’re clearly missing what’s right in front of you. If you can’t see Jeongwon’s controlling, manipulative behavior—like guilt-tripping, disregarding boundaries, and those rapey episodes—then we’re definitely not reading the same story.

And babe, I’m not "blindly defending" anyone. I’ve said multiple times that Inhwee is flawed and has messed up. But pretending Jeongwon’s toxic actions don’t exist? That’s on you.

Anyway, this conversation’s going nowhere, and frankly, it’s not worth my time. Keep yelling into the void if it makes you feel better. I’ll be over here with my eyes—and common sense—intact.

@burberrymin miss ma'am are your eyes working properly? Or English isn't your Forte? That's why I called you a bottom rider. Always being blind .no. I actually I'm reading what's served That's why I told you to explain properly.  But guess you can't do that instead of pulling s_t out your a$$ . 
Now you are adding new words 😭😭🤣it's hilarious.  Guilt tripping where ? In which episode? And again I already said no one is denying those rapey episodes ..are you okay? Is your brain working properly? How about you take a rest than yapping the same sh_t again and again without providing evidence.  
Exactly we aren't reading the same story you seem to have loose brain cells that aren't working properly.  Get yourself checked please. And again don't yapp  ever again .
Again are you retarded? Are you genuinely retarded? Or are you an illiterate cause where did anyone deny seme isn't toxic? Are you genuinely fu*** sick in the head? You are defending blindingly.  You have v-tim complex and if you wanna cry That's on you don't do that sh-t here .

Exactly I don't think someone who can't read sentences properly and explain what is Manipulation in which episode it was done should be having any conversations with me . 
Keep yapping like a illiterate retarded sh/t if it helps you keep your v-tim complex.  Common sense? And you ? Lmao you two don't belong together.  Isn't that why you couldn't explain.  
Shoo shoo . Don't bark here ever again .

@burberrymin please get treatment for your brain or don't yapp In other comments.  I have enough of your bs  yapping . I hope you won't yapp anymore.  Talking to senseless people with v-tim complex is not something I'm good at . I'm been trying to be patient but you sound genuinely ill and sick

@Xoxo Oh, sweetheart, I would explain, but considering your brain cells are clearly on strike, I don’t think you’d get it even if I drew you a map. You’re out here repeating the same incoherent drivel like a scratched CD, circling one point and throwing insults because you don’t actually have an argument.

You wanna talk about "evidence"? Babe, try reading the manhwa properly instead of throwing tantrums in the comments section. I don’t have time to explain basic concepts like manipulation and guilt-tripping to someone who’s too busy foaming at the mouth to listen.

Also, calling someone the r slur and "illiterate" doesn’t make you look clever—it makes you look desperate and ignorant. Maybe you should take a break, because this level of unhinged is genuinely embarrassing.

Anyway, I’m done here. Go bark at someone else, miss ma’am—you’re not worth the keystrokes.