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the bottom can't say the cause of his problems "normally" because he doesn't want to make the top guilty. But, at the same time, he is trying to convey his feelings.
I used to feel just like you, until I genuinely tried not to make people upset, and not try to (quote on quote) "guilt trip / manipulate" them, because I wanted to have a humane, and respectful relationship.
the bottom can't say the cause of his problems "normally" because he doesn't want to make the top guilty. But, at the same time, he is trying to convey his feelings.
I used to feel just like you, until I genuinely tried not to make people upset, and not try to (quote on quote) "guilt trip / manipulate" them, because I wanted to have a humane, and respectful relationship.