Comment by Pearl on An egocentric way of thinking - Chapter 38

@Pearl   Preach. Preach. 
I feel the same way 😔 He is getting on my last nerve. 
Also with the "you're cold giving us work and now that we're alone you act this way?" As the work-lover I am, this irks me a lot... Work is work, not date time. Why is he expecting him to be treated like a boyfriend at the office in front of everyone?

I think if the animation wasn't as gorgeous and breathtaking as it is, and the s** scenes as hot as they are (daaaamnnn ML can kiss 😍😍) I would've dropped it by now. 

Let's hope he gets better because all my hopes are towards loving this ❤️❤️❤️

@Pearl look bro I am not being mean here ok? It's not the MC's fault it's his past boyfriends fault for making him feel like this. He fears that if he says yes in everything the ML will leave him and it can happen too because we don't know what can happen in the future. 
So, I wish you understand the reason and like both of them

@Kritika Singha look, bro, I'm not being mean here, ok? Yes he has his past trauma, etc, but if you excuse your sh** behavior by saying is because of what others did to you, then you're a different type of toxic. 
If he needs help dealing with that, then go to therapy, don't date and project your issues onto others who are mentally okay. If you do that, then you can hurt those people and those will hurt others and it creates a toxic circle with people hurting everyone cuz they're allowed to since they're hurt, instead of people taking accountability, find a way to heal themselves and then have healthy relationships with healthy people. 

Also, if you pay attention the MC is doing all this to himself. It's okay to have past trauma, and that he doesn't want to go fast, but then if he's ready he needs to say it, not expect that the other person will magically guess when you want,  when you don't want, if it's a maybe, etc. 
A relationship is not all about what he needs and what he wants and his time and his thoughts, he needs to communicate and reach each point together. 

No matter the amount of trauma, work IS work. What kind of unprofessional person wants their boyfriend to get in trouble, and lose his office reputation, respect, and many other things that can happen in most companies just because he wants to be cuddled while surrounded by people? That's a huge, big, no. He's not a teen who can't understand that there's a time and place for everything. 

So, I wish you understand that what the MC is doing is in fact toxic, it can be fixed if he talks about it, but he doesn't so that's mainly why I only like one of them.

@Kritika Singha he is acting irrationally. Just sayin

Like I get all that horrible past, u know, but not cool to do what he is doing. 

Like put urself in ML shoes, u did nothin but your boyfriend blames you for every bad thing that happened in his past
He keeps stuff from you
Doesn't tell u how he feels but expects you to know what to do or else he gets angry
He dosn't care if u get in trouble at the job
Treats u as a cheater 
And all the other things that MC does. 

Would you be happy in that relationship? Will u feel safe and glad your in that type of couple or would you want a man that treats you better? That gives 50 and expects 50 not just take 100 from u
Just sayin

@Pearl I honestly think y'all are taking this story abit too seriously