So I ended up accepting the men in Warehouse being together bc they actually always loved each other. And their entire misunderstanding was based on age. The uke was a manipulative teenage boy and the seme was a borderline personality disorder having baby who couldn't deal with even fake rejection. The way he "gets him back" is disgusting and INSANE but I can understand why they stayed together.
Minho and Cha however make no sense. One, Minho is straight. Cha stole his entire life and abused him. Minho is a maso***** but I can't accept that he would fall for Cha. It would ruin his character if he did.