As a gay man, I-fuc****-hate "gay culture." Those ugly a** queens give us gays just trying to be normal a** human beings the worst time. Everytime I tell someone I'm gay, I get the "you don't act gay," and it's because of THEM. The loudest, most obnoxious little bit**** in the room, and I wish they all would just take a long walk off a short pier. MOST gey men don't fuc**** act like that. You have a handful of obnoxious little sh***, who get all the attention simply because they're the loudest little sl*** in the room. Now they've taken over pop culture, leading everyone to believe that THAT is how we are. If you see a gay man acting like that in the wild, I NEEEEED you to know it's all just an obnoxious little act. They're just trying to be dramatic attention whores. They don't act like that alone. I can say with 1,000,000% certainty that there is no exception. IT IS AN ACT!
Can't help but lowk agree on some of that 😭 Because there's feminine gay and then there's gay that only extends to the preference of men. It really depends on preference and some gays genuinely like acting like over the top teenage girls, can't really fault them, that's just how they are. Honestly I think this type of gay mentality came from years of oppression over ho** men. But yeah it's hard to fit in a society where you can be judged and accused as something you're really not. It's a pipe dream for society to normalize the idea that a non sterotypical gay man can pass as a "straight man," but the only difference is that he would prefer romance with other men like he is.
With that being said, I totally agree that gay guys who act like being gay is their entire personality are extremely annoying, but I can't help but also try to understand them. It then makes me think and compare them to a group of girls in the club all for flirty and sht with guys. At this point, both of these groups are simply perverts nonetheless, but the difference here is that the girls don't normally get judged as hatefully as the group of gays would, so in a sense, it's kind of like a rebellion against homophobia ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
