@Ray I agree that it's hard to talk about trauma and I get how difficult it must be for eunhyuk, but sooae is also a person, with real feelings and with a life ahead of her, it's selfish to believe that she has to wait for him, be patient and understanding and be there for him at all times even after so many years have passed and even after all the chances she gave him. She has to move on with her life, and if I were in her shoes, I wouldn't be blindly waiting for a man that has left me in the dark for so long. I get both sides of the story, and I do believe in the end she and eunhyuk will make up and be together, so this is not hate to him