[Kinda Long sorry but I needed to let this out]
I understand that you guys think only 1 typa victim is worthy of victimhood but you need to look at what's being shown. Imo, they're both victims and villains to each other yet at the same time, they've only gotten like this because they've been victims to the social norms and societal expectations of their sub genders. They were raised to believe Suah would be an omega and Juhyeok would be an alpha.
They both cried when they weren't what everyone else said they'd be and they never got to fully process that shift in their identity, or what the shift meant to their relationship. The omega was showered with pheromones unintentionally as a kid from the supposed omega and the alpha assumed whether there were 1 alpha or 2, they could still be together as promised by the supposed alpha but the omega does not know how to deal with that identity crisis.
So in the end, they hurt each other. Suah gets physically assaulted all the time for just tryna be with him and "take responsibility" and Juhyeok gets emotionally manipulated and sexually assaulted in Suah's attempt to not let him go. And now roles are reverse as Juhyeok emotionally manipulates him and now sexually assaults him for his own gain but that's only because he was bonded (probably) by him unknowingly and it literally disrupts his life & livelihood.
[TLDR: It's a terrible situation for both because they're both hurt, and getting hurt, hurting each other.]