@morpheus How is Hayoon at fault here? All she said she wasn't ready to go farther and the other girl avoided her because she assumed Hayoon was straight. Like if we have a hypothetical where she thought Hayoon was gay initially, and Hayoon had the same reaction, would Hayoon not be valid? Hayoon tried to contact the black haired girl multiple times and the black haired girl cut off contact instead of trying to understand Hayoon's feelings. I don't see any world where the black haired girl isn't the one at fault.
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