When you've literally read so many bl manhwas that are red flagged and had grape scenes to the point that you forgot this was considered as grape: 
Spoiler!
Live, Laugh, Love rebzyyx, odetari and Ado. 
He/him pronouns
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Top 3 Favorite BL
1.) LITC(lost in the clouds)
2.) Define The Relationship
3.) Dear, 00