Comment by Rok on Uruwashi No Yoi No Tsuki - Chapter 9

Comment on ChapterUruwashi No Yoi No Tsuki - Chapter 9
Rok
RokMember·6 months ago(edited)
This guy is so confusing...and yet another ho. I thought that he was more or less serious from the jump, but he keeps going back and forth between joking around and not joking. He's even trying to convince himself that he's not feeling love, and that's just confusing.

He won't do anything she hates??? He's been doing that from the start. He publically made a scene in her classroom to have lunch together even though she already said no, he keeps drawing attention to her by coming by her classroom all the time even though she wasn't comfortable, he showed up at her family's freaking restaurant just to give something back that he could've just given her the next day. etc etc In typical ml fashion, he's being intrusive in her life, and doesn't take no for an answer. It's just gross. Why can't these authors write actual green flag mls instead of dressing up red flag moments/behavior as false green flags?

I was actually excited that the fl wasn't the typical "I'm so helpless without the ml", weak-willed, damsel in distress, that sucks at everything that the ml excels at...but she's no different in many other ways, which is disappointing.

Dropping this.

9 Replies

@Rok nah bro this is just the beginning of their relationship. relax it's only chp 9 there's a lot more to read, maybe he changes? who knows? since it's their first time to have a proper relationship ofc there will be a lot of confusing things
Rok
RokMember·5 months ago(edited)
@yourdad Did you read my comment properly? Like I said, he's a typical ml, so your explanation is not an excuse nor does it justify what he's done so far. Being an intrusive a****** in the fl's life is TYPICAL behavior for an ml(read this sentence again). You don't see the average fl acting like this; there are some I'm sure, but it's not typical. The typical fl is on the receiving end of the bad treatment and just accepts it because these authors wrap it up as "romantic"; which is what I've already said before: "Why can't these authors write actual green flag mls instead of dressing up red flag moments/behavior as false green flags?"

They hardly had a relationship when he was already being intrusive in her life. Regardless though, the start of a relationship does not in any shape or form excuse his behavior. How do you start off disrespectful? If you don't know how to act, don't pursue anyone or be in a relationship. Once again, you don't see the fl acting this way. He should take no for an answer instead of publicly showing up to her classroom and practically using peer pressure and her shyness to force her into having lunch with him. He's so popular that if she said no(like she already said before), the students would've come for her throat. That's terrible. 

You guys are always making excuses for these trash ml characters. It's not about age either, because most stories I've tried has a whole adult ml who acts exactly the same way: is a ho, doesn't take no for an answer, intrudes in the fl's life and personal space etc etc.(on a real note, tbh this is how stalkers behave) Before I dropped this, I tried skipping ahead in the story to see if there would be any changes...there wasn't. It was a typical cliche development. So please miss me with all of your BS excuses. I made it very clear in my first comment: he's the avg ml. I want more green flag mls. If you're going to ignore what I said in my comment, don't respond.
@Rok everyone has different opinions and im sorry if i didn't respect yours. i didn't mean to make you angry so dont hate me. maybe im the one who confused here and ig u r right ehe have a nice day and im sorry again. my badpepe sticker

(dont hate me guys im just confused, but im okay if u want to dislike my comment)
@Rok I've read both of your "comments" which are closer to a friggin essay. Also what kind of romance manga you be reading, this sound less like a "typical ml" and more like you suck at finding good, wholesome manga. I'm not gonna say that this one's ml is anywhere close to good and I agree with you on him being intrusive, but why you gotta jump into the comments and rip some dudes head off who has a different opinion than yours. Seriously chill, its friggin fiction it ain't something you need to go into the comments and be unprovokedly rude to someone who made a comment that clashed with yours. You're childish and need to relax, take nap or something, come down of your high horse and stop yelling at random people Karen.
@yourdad don't worry bro your opinion is very much valid ..and seriously, there was no need for the other person to be that stressed abt something fictional
Rok
RokMember·3 months ago(edited)
@Fcknhell Lol that's the usual response that everyone uses. That it's "fictional" so it's not a big deal...Stories are literally made for us to react to...if people shouldn't stress because a story is fictional, then why were the beaches empty when the movie "Jaws" came out? It was just a fictional movie after all. This may be a fictional story, but the dynamics are very, very real. People like the ml and fl are very, very real. People are heavily influenced by what they see, and this sh** is toxic, but it's written like it's romantic. It's a problem.

It also makes for a sh** story, and I just want to find a good story. So many copy/paste characters. The names/character designs are different, but the dynamics and story are more or less all the same. It gets frustrating and irritating. Having to repeat myself because the other person didn't bother reading my OP properly, and defending this toxic garbage is also highly irritating.

Go ahead and massage the other person's feelings. Both of you could've just kept scrolling if you didn't agree. I made my stance on this toxic sh** very clear. I haven't even bothered reading anything since my last reply, but your very overused comment made me laugh. It shows a lack of any real thought.
@Rok If you remember correctly I agreed with you, however you need to take your own advice. If you disagree'd with yourdads opinion YOU could have kept scrolling but you didn't did you. No you decided to be a rude little sh** and bi*** him out like a karen looking for the manager. And then you post this garbage, Yes its very realistic I get it, but IT IS STILL FICTION. You don't need to get all pissy at someone WHO HAS A DIFFERENT OPINION TO YOURS. Seriously chill the fu** out, take that nap for gods sakes.
@Rok could've ignored the manhwa in the first place but u didn't ...also if you don't like these stories then you can respectfully fu** off and stop replying to our comments