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IlyaaaaaMember·2 years ago(edited)
Alright guys I need ur help with sumth. So I've had a crush on this guy in my high-school for months now, and the only one who knew was my best friend. So we were once joking and talking about him and I was like 'wait wanna try following him?' So we did and ge only accepted my follow request but followed her back, and then about a week later he texted her, keep in mind they don't know each other at all, and she told me about it and I told her not to text him back, I begged her not to text him back, but she still did saying she doesn't wanna be rude and mean and they talked, then we fought about it and she blocked him, then he texted her through her second account and she didn't tell me and they texted for hours and when I got mad she said 'well it's not my fault he liked me more than u so stop overreacting' that's when I blocked her, what's worse is that she told her brother that I got mad cause he followed her back and not me, even thought that's not why I got mad. So who's at fault? Please help me
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@Ilyaaaaa

Uh, You? Tf.

It was clear as day that the guy was interested in her. You're actually so selfish for that. Your bestfriend even blocked him for you. If that was me I would've just ended our relationship right there and then. Like? Are you the only one allowed to have feelings for someone? Do you own the guy?

Don't even try to defend yourself with the "even thought that's not why I got mad." cause we all know it's the reason of the fight. 
Like atleast have some shame and act like someone with respect for yourself. What's the endgoal of your "block him". Will he magically have feelings for you if she blocked him?

@Ilyaaaaa If it doesn't work out, just move on. Why make a fool out of yourself, destroying a relationship you already have just to chase someone who clearly has feelings for someone else. It's just such a foolish thing to do but understanble for a highschooler.
@Lelouch vi Britannia  um. no. call me stupid, but i think they're BOTH at fault here. number one, the friend led the guy on, knowing very very well that OP liked him. she even decided to go as far as to keep responding to him on her second account, even after blocking him on her first. 'it's not my fault he likes me better, so stop overreacting' BAD WAY TO RESPOND. also, lying to her brother?? red flag. yes, OP shouldn't have gotten mad like that, i understand it was out of love, but still not a good reason to fight like that. i would just say drop that friend since she's not the best person at all, and try and move on from your crush and find a better friend and crush.
@Lelouch vi Britannia I got mad cause she responded to him, they don't each other at all. Let me ask u, if ur best friend liked a guy that u don't know at all and he texted u would u respond? That's the reason I got mad, I mean that guy could go fu** himself for all I care but I felt betrayed when she texted him back that's all
@Lelouch vi Britannia he's fuc**** playing her that's why, I don't give a flying fu** about him cause I don't like him enough to fight with my best friend for him, also I didn't block her immediately I told her to forget it, and I told her that her crush, who's also from my school, said that he heard that she chases men like a dog and yk with what she responded? 'You told him huh?' And that's after I spent half an hour convincing him that she's the best bi*** ever.
@leema exactly cause she already had a crush on someone and she was desperate to text him and I was helping her out but she still texted the guy I like ( I knew I had no chance with him btw and I definitely don't love him more than gojo)
leema
leemaMember·2 years ago(edited)
@Ilyaaaaa  omg so she was going after 2 guys?? ew!! talk about toxic, and even after you helped her, she still made advances on him! (dw, you'll find someone better lmfao)