I actually wanted to talk about a problem I have with someone. I had this best friend who I hangout and talk to all the time, but we stopped being friend because of something. I was a people pleaser (I'm still one) and when she asked me money I always gave her. When she asked me to go out with her because she was bored I was always coming. But I've complained to my another friend (let's name her Anna) that I was tired of giving her money and that I didn't know what to do to tell her that I didn't want to give anymore. Anna told me that she was surely using me and that I shouldn't be friend with her anymore. And when I told (let's name her Jane) that I didn't wanted to be friend with her she spread rumors about me bullying her and she told like half of my secrets to people 💀
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@Vz2 well im not sure what you should do in that situation... but lesson learned "choose your friends carefully"
Also instead of outright saying that you don't want to be friends anymore, you should have slowly distanced yourself from her
Also instead of outright saying that you don't want to be friends anymore, you should have slowly distanced yourself from her
@Vz2 You have a dilemma, I would say drop that friend or get revenge but I'd be a hypocrite because I use my friends sometimes 🥹