it doesn't matter if you're not straight this is abt gay men. And even if u were to be a gay man and be "surprised to see a shorter/smaller top and bigger bottom" then u just haven't seen or know of many gay men. Plus the way how you came off wasn't just surprised.. it was also u telling other ppl clearly in a way where u know of what ur talking abt when it comes to tops and bottoms. You were saying things in a way where the non stereotypical tops or bottoms can't be tops cause they don't "look a certain way"
if u truely are bisexual and you think that it doesn't make it any less werid as a stereotype. I'm not saying the stereotype doesn't exist. I'm saying that the mindset and statements u were putting out is basically saying that they have to look a certain way. Plus even if u really are bi. Then you're basically just putting yourself in the same category straight ppl do and saying that u can't be a bottom/top if u look/act a certain way ( basically u don't meet the straight ppl requirements )
plus also it's weird how in your earlier comments u said "those dumb sh** lgbtq"... to Elliot.
So that's also interesting to hear that your bi when you talk ant your own community like that.
regardless this is abt top/bottom in general but more so specifically mlm. Regardless of u being bi if u actually are, that still doesn't mean that gay/bi ppl can't be werid or what they say is actually true for what they say.
and as I said being surprised is totally different to saying stuff in a way where u make a statement making it seem as if he can't be a top. Regardless of bi or not it's still weird and untrue
