and at that point he's yell at me and hung up...and does not texting me for about 2 month... I was thinking it's my fault because I keep urging him to go to hospital..and yeap atp he yell at me.. it's was a day before my economic test..so I flunked my test and...I feel angry at myself...I was thinking that if i doesn't date him out of whim because he's asked me out...would i be in top 10 in school...I heard from his friend (we have the same circle of friends) that he's actually narcissistic...because no matter what person he date...he doesn't actually care about that...I realised it after we broke up (he broke it off) and I'm glad that I get out from him just in two months...because he's usually dated for long time...and this month... he's showed up... he's planning to come at my lil sis birthday...and my own mom invited him...what should i do? I already moved on from him cause it's already a long time ago...but i hated him but I love him at the same time...
@Who am i let's first calm down. first of all ( if you want) ask your mom not to invite him and why. if it is your own mother and a good one she'll understand. second of all it is gonna be hard to see your once love one and i felt that too so two day before the bday party let all your feelings out cry,be alone..etc third of all it's okay this will all pass by and you don't have to worry. it is gonna be hard but you can do it even if you think you can't.
good luck and if he talks to you, you can always give short answer " yea" and "no" before quickly leaving
@Who am i I say tell your mom what happened, and that you don't want him there. that should convince her to un-invite him. If I may provide some advice, (you don't have to listen to me) don't talk to him anymore. If you keep talking he'll probably take advantage of you and try to get back together again. He will be truthful until he doesn't feel like it. He will essentially make your life worse.
@I_am_an_Anonymous_guy spent more effort on this than my school essay worth 35pt. (the lower the points the worse your grade is if you get a low score)
@simple simp thank you, eventhough it's been years but I feel like I might throw punch at him but I won't do that..for the sake of my lil sis guest( they are kid after all)
@I_am_an_Anonymous_guy nope, she's already know about it and she's doesn't care...she said that I need to brace myself to face him and help my lil sis birthday party until it success...but thank you for suggestion.
