@Tigre Triste What you call "trauma", I see as rather "self-focused" personality. Feeling insecure? - Do not start a relationship which demands considering your partner's stance on many occasions. Garam treated Jaehyuk for granted, till he realized Jaehyuk is not there for him anymore. Got cold feet and a change of heart? That's a realisation of love in your opinion? And then, "don't go abroad, stay with me" - that's love? No way in life.
