Unpopular opinion but you don't get to do what he did to her, then not speak to her for... what? Months? Then decide you can be jealous and possessive when she reappears and there's people interested in her.
He moves the goal posts to suit his convenience and if she had an ounce of self respect, she'd tell him to eff off. He set these boundaries, she's just respecting them.
@Venaldre you are so right it creates cognitive disonance in my brain because I ship them obviously but if it was a real situation...g** Haneul you can do better!!
@Vernon Avaritt 3 I've considered the case where he's done something truly heinous in his mind that makes him think he doesn't deserve her, but that's still not logical. he still played friend to her all these years. He still slept with her. She told him she likes him and wants to be with him and he withdrew because "he doesn't deserve her". But he deserved her friendship? Her body? What a weird line to draw. Also, he doesn't get to decide what she deserves and speaks for he.
i get that people are complex but his decisions are selfish. Again, pixels. I'm getting worked up. Haha I hear myself!