Hey guys can someone give me advice what to do. Two of my close cousin's wedding coming up and I really want to attend but the problem is there are so many ladies there like my relatives they are also going to attend the wedding and they are so damn obsessed with my wedding they are always on high alert like the moment I walk in the room they are like when are you thinking of getting married you are 24 year old my daughter of your age is happily married and now mother of two children you are successful too now think about marriage and all and then starts to introduce bachelors. And my mom and dad get influenced by them too. I am so damn irritated with all this that I no longer attend such events anymore. But these two cousins of mine are really close to me and they requested alot. But these damn relatives of mine give me so much stress I just can't. I have so much workload with 12+ hour's shift in hospital and dealing with patients one after another. Sometimes even night shift it's all so damn stressful and then these when are you getting married question aaaaaaaaaa 😤😤.
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@Anjali Rajput ARGH SERIOUSLY THESE DAMN RELATIVES FIRST SAY THAT YOU SHOULDNT GET CLOSE TO THE OPPOSITE GENDER AND WHEN YOU ARE IN YOUR 20s THEY WANT YOU MARRIED AND WANT YOU TO HAVE 4 KIDS LIKE H*L NAH IGNORE THESE PEOPLE AND TELL YOUR PARENTS THAT YOU DONT WANNA GET MARRIED. YOU SHOULDNT THROW AWAY YOUR HAPPINESS FOR THESE DAMN RELATIVES😤
@Anjali Rajput typically Indian relatives just ignore them and just focus on eating hihihi 
@Anjali Rajput Be like me , fake having a difficult personality so that they themselves start to distance themselves and get any rumors floating around by using your sister's big mouth , or you.. could just try to be a loner??
@Anjali Rajput tell them that you found someone that may be in your interest but your not sure yet and also tell them that you don’t wanna introduce them fully yet since your not fully sure if they are the right one yet and you don’t want to give them a to close family bond if it isn’t the right one
@Anjali Rajput One of the things about weddings is that the bride and groom have a lot of control over events so ask them to seat you on the other side of the room away from relatives. Socialise during the music/dance time because it’s easier to dodge conversations when the music is too loud
@love aot I totally agree with you. I seriously hate these relatives of mine from every fibres, bones and tissues in my body.
@Lil_Fox I don't know why but I am kind of relieved that I am not the only one who had face such type of situation. 😅😅
@Ashura believe me I am total loner. But they don't care at all.
@Jojo then my mom and dad are gonna be even more eager for my marriage coz in India how come a fully fledged adult girl or boy decides whom they wants to marry and spend their whole life with, without their parents introducing them to their supposed future partner. That's a literal crime like the most ruthless crime to ever existed in humanity. And what their child wants to do love marriage instead of arrange one Noooooooo the world is going to end.
@Needtoread you know I do agree with you but as you know how relatives usually are no matter how much you try to hide some nosy relatives will always find you.