Comment by Kayylaaa on Joo Jaekyung

@Joo Jaekyung s & m is sad*** and masochistic desires in s**. Sadists like to see their sexual partner in pain, so tied up, slapping them, using certain "toys" to edge them, etc. Masochists like to be in pain and get off from it, so bondage, whips,  etc. most relationships should have a safe word in case the sad*** goes too far and the maso***** ends up REALLY getting hurt. If you read BJ Alex, the side story has a pretty good example of an S&M relationship! That's the best i can explain it lol.