Out of context: guys i just found out my bf has a bunch of pictures of girls in his camera roll like nude pictures prolly from po** and i also found found him messaging a bunch of girls but like not sexting or anything just like how are you n stuff , i already caught him with these knda pictures before and he told me it was mistake and he will never do it again so i believed him cos i love him and we have been together for more than 1 year and we used to be soo good but what really thrown me off is that i saw a picture of someone i know in his phone so i confronted him he tried to sna*** his phone away and finally told me he downloaded the picture from that girl's Instagram ( the girl i know) just to maste***** and he was begging me to forgive him because he said he did it a long time ago and he never done anything after that . I feel like my whole world collapsed because i loved him truly and never expected anything like this from him idk what to do . Please guys what should i do , i really have no one to talk to
Comment by Prarthana on Jinx - Chapter 76
8 Replies
@Prarthana girl at this point you should break up with him cuz he would never change if you keep giving him chances and i know it would hurt you because you love him and been with him for a year or more but you have to set youself free from him by breaking up plus there is many more people out there that might be right for you . and if you do find someone make sure you tell him your standards and things thats neceasery to tell them
@Prarthana in my opinion you should Break up I was also once in a relationship and he always start fight bcs he said im too cold and dont care about him and I felt uncomfortable bcs he was actually always the Person who starts a fight but i didint wanted to Break up with him bcs i loved him but at the end he broke up and now After a time im glad bcs i was a fool that i stayed with that Person and i think when your bf download other Girls pictures he would also maybe do more some day also when its hurts bcs you love him he isint good for you bcs you hang on someone who maybe watch other Girls picture in the moment you miss him or are hurt of his actions and rack your Brain over the Situation. That what i think i know it can be Hard but with the time its getting better and you will see the truth and be glad .Hope that helps!!
@Prarthana Leave him. He doesn't deserve to be in your life. It will only go downhill from here if you stay with someone like him--a pathological liar. They never change, I promise you. Even if it's hard for you to leave, if you do, it will feel immensely relieving.
@Prarthana Girrllll, I feel you and I know it's devastating that one whom you trusted and loved betrayed you in the most devastating way but just leave his sorry a** cause if you forgive him one more time, you'll feel unloved, insecure and unworthy. I don't know you personally but you deserve so much better than a piece of sh*t that doesn't know the value of gem right in front of him. Don't let his manipulation get the best of you and I hope you love yourself more to make the decision. Hope you feel better soon and better days are coming your way and know you're truly worth more than what you feel or how he let's you feel. Love ya 💞
@Prarthana girl tbh iv never had a relationship BUT follow what your instinct i get your love this silly boy but please end this with him thats not normal what he is doing he must be using you for something. Think have your bought him things given him money done something for him done things because HE wants to. Im telling you tho i know im a stranger dont look so adivce here some people might make u feel like your in the wrong. Your not like i cant believe this is so weird of him even msging girls so many of them because why? Im not saying oh he cant have female friends but so many and them pics yeah thats not a red flag thats straight up BLACK. So finally he might have another device he uses to do WORSE and i know shes your bestfriend but put yourself first not anyone else because she might not have done anything about this but she MAY be jealous of your relationship so also check their texts if they have any. GL GIRL AND DUMP HIM.
@Prarthana kick his fu**ing a** and say fu*k of u moron i don't give a sh** bout . U think I are the only cheater then u are I've been doing the same
@Prarthana GILR DUMP HIM??? It's as easy as that. He's a di**. Get rid of that thing
@Prarthana glad to see the amount of people concerned.
Do you want the raw, naked truth? Get out, now, while there's no kids, no marriage binding you. A year is nothing compared to the rest of your life. Take it from someone who's done plenty of all sorts of things in life (yes, i'm that old!!).
He'll do it, again and again. There's so many fish in the sea, and dogs on land to swim or run with, and life's really too short to dance with ugly people. When you close a door, another opens. Wish you well, 😘🤗.
Do you want the raw, naked truth? Get out, now, while there's no kids, no marriage binding you. A year is nothing compared to the rest of your life. Take it from someone who's done plenty of all sorts of things in life (yes, i'm that old!!).
He'll do it, again and again. There's so many fish in the sea, and dogs on land to swim or run with, and life's really too short to dance with ugly people. When you close a door, another opens. Wish you well, 😘🤗.