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PrinzincBattle-Hardened·6 months ago
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@TOTCF Drinking after work is part of work culture in Korea. You can't get out of it even if you want to. Of course he doesn't want to call his wife, because she behaves badly regardless of the circumstances. Would you want to call your wife if you knew that she was going to yell at you for things that you didn't have control over? His wife doesn't have reasonable concerns, she's entitled and impossible to talk to. 

Regarding housework, yeah somone who works 50+ hours a week shouldn't have any housework if his spouse is home all week. If your spouse is staying home as a "homemaker" she needs to actually take care of the home. Once in a while it's fine if she needs a break, but thinking that it's OK to make one person a slave who does everything all the time is evil. 

You clearly have no idea what makes good kids and eventually good adults so I won't even argue the point with you. Suffice to say that children need responsibility and tools to help them become adults. These things are slowly learned over time through ever greater responsibility until they become adults and can choose for themselves. Having your hedonistic viewpoint on children only leads to entitled, bratty, hedonistic adults who can never take care of their own life much less create and sustain a family. Life isn't a TV reality show and having 6 kids is as different from 19 kids as 1 kid is from having 4 kids (roughly). The fact that this is literally the first and only thing you can think of in this moment tells me exactly how familiar you are with what you are talking about.

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@Prinzinc  lol, is this you not caring about my opinion? You clearly care. Look, think what you like I don't care.🤣

Also, you are confusing some things. He is their boss. He is in charge of the team. It would be him forcing his subordinates to go out and stay longer to stay on his good side. Plus, I actually lived in Korea for a year. My coworkers invited their spouses along all the time. Once, my coworker's husband showed up with their son. She didn't drink excessively and he didn't drink at all to drive. No one gave them grief for it. Their son ate and had a phone and book to keep himself entertained too. Before they left they even offered me and another coworker a ride back home so we wouldn't have to use the subway late at night. It's not as toxic as its made out to be in these stories. Maybe it really depends on who your work with or for what company you work for, I guess. By the way, I still think you are lying about yourself but hey at least you don't care about convincing us, right! 😅