I'm not offended, it was a joke. I never stated my gender intentionally. If you're over 14 you're technically old enough to have your own kids, you simply have not chosen to. Also 18+ material is, funnily enough, created for people who are over 18. You guys are not the target audience and genuinely open the author up to risk by reading it. The reason that this kind of content is so controversial is because people don't want it getting into the hands of children, So if people find out that a bunch of little kids are Reading it online that makes problems for the author. It can even keep them from getting published and being able to make more content, Some countries of the world can even get them arrested. Also prevents this kind of content from being more widely available. They would be much better off if they could put this in bookstores or Sell it more openly. But they can't exclusively because people are afraid kids will get it.
Outside of all that, you should be more careful. Because of an idiot like me can find information about you. Someone who genuinely wishes to do you harm can find a lot more. And as much as people think "Oh, that couldn't happen to me," It happens unfortunately pretty regularly
I'm 30 and grouchy, don't be surprised
(if I post spoilers it's all lies)
