@Ced also not to stir the pot, but...usually when people don't want to identify as cis it's because they believe they are the (let's use women in this example) woman thus othering trans people by saying "I am a woman and you are a trans woman we are not the same" they dud it during the Civil rights movement as well "I am a white man and you are a black man we are not the same" if that helps with context it's all about social hierarchy