@Alex
yeah I think though if your reading BL or GL purely for the making love scene then yeah that's a little weird but I think the mindset of gay and lesbian relationships are actually real relationships (because they are)were with most of the people I met. I think it's kind of like a straight guy watching lesbian p o r n and only sees it as a tag rather than an actual relationship and thats weird. so if you just switch it around where a straight woman who watches gay p o r n and sees it as only as a tag rather than a relationship than yeah you weird.