Comment by Kim Rok Soo on How to Get My Husband on My Side - Chapter 21

Comment on ChapterHow to Get My Husband on My Side - Chapter 21
Ok, so I like art. The characters look so good, the story is quite interesting. I understand the plot. Many traumas and emotional baggage. Everything makes sense and seems very interesting. Maybe some people won't like me saying this, but I don't like MC at all anymore. I understand her character. I know she went through a lot and it's normal to have trauma. But I've gotten used to the fact that the MC is usually strong or smart enough to take her plans where she wants. I'm sorry she went through all this, but I'm not used to weak characters. And the MC from Death is the only ending for the villain who went through a lot and became powerful in that world. I still know that everyone reacts differently to trauma, but it's very sad to see MC so helpless and scared. It kind of annoys me. Don't know what to say...
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@Kim Rok Soo The way you put it is better than how most people did, most of them quit reading this manhwa cause "it's too dramatic" when it's understandable. You said you're not used to weak mc's and that it annoys you, so it's understandable. I respect your choice.
@aoi Thank you for your understanding. But now that I think about it, I probably see myself in her. I didn't go through such things like her, thank G**, but I also have some traumas, bigger or smaller. It may sound strange what I'm about to say, but the bad things in my life that happened in the past are more like a shame to me. It's not right to think like that, but I see them as weaknesses that I can't talk about with anyone. And what frustrates me the most is that even though I know it's better to share with others and maybe that's how you get over it, my pride won't let me admit something like that out loud. Some of them are things that seem normal to others. For example, when I was little I was bitten by a big dog. Since then, I always run away when I see big dogs nearby, other than my own. But overall, I don't talk about worse things because I feel ashamed, I think. I think that's why I don't like her character.
@Kim Rok Soo Don't worry, not everyone is able to talk about their weaknesses or traumas, and you shouldn't be forced to either. You only talk about it if you feel comfortable doing so, but it's also good sharing your trauma to others, however I suggest not doing it on the internet as lately people have been very rude and negative towards people. Btw, when I was little I also visited someone with my aunt, and whenever we visited, their dog would come running to the door and barking which made me pretty scared lol. I once accidently stepped on it's tail while it was sleeping and it bit me, since then I've always been scared of dogs no matter how small or big or how obedient they are. I'm also scared of getting scratched by a cat (I simply dislike it)
Not liking her character due to personal reasons is also understandable. If you dislike her, that's your opinion. No one should choose for you.
@aoi BTW, you just reminded me of cats. :)) Until a little while ago I hated cats and only thought that I didn't like them and that's because you know, some people like dogs, others cats, others don't like animals of any kind. Anyway, I recently remembered that when I was little I slept at my cousin's house who was much older. I was probably 6 or 7 years old. As a child, I believed everything the adults said. She told me that she has a very bad cat that scratches and bites. I was so scared when I stayed at her place that I didn't sleep all night. I was always looking behind me, to my left, to my right. When I wanted to go to the bathroom, I ran. Even more absurd, I wanted to eat a banana and I opened the door of the buffet in the kitchen, which was quite high, and I was afraid that the cat might be there and jump on my head. She told me later that she didn't actually have a cat and that she only told me that so I wouldn't touch her things. Recently I remembered this and now I know why I always hated them. But now my brother has a cat and I wouldn't admit it to anyone, but it's pretty cute.
@Kim Rok Soo I used to believe grown ups a lot too lmao. My mom would always tell me a ghost would come and take me away if I didn't sleep at night, it made me very scared so I always tried to fall asleep asap. My aunt and her two children also have 4 cats, except one of them died around a year ago. They're very kind but I'm still afraid of being scratched so whenever they try to play with me I just leave them alone.
@Kim Rok Soo THANK YOU SO MUCH you're the first person that I have seen didn't like the fl but was respectful of all that see was going though, honestly when I read some of the comments I'm amazed at how heartless some people are to others situations and their unreasonably demands towards others that themselves will ironically never meet.