The lord doesn't know how to love someone or embrace someone just like yoon or i just forgot what the name of the uke was, they don't know their way or the feel of expressing or accepting love, majesty, so hurts the uke without the right conciousness, which he thinks entertains him, though he loves the uke but it takes him late to realise it he also cares for him and helped him to cure
on the other hand the commander loves the uke but whatever the uke is gonna end up with the majesty it's toxic, but it's the way of love here.
BLs make me feel more single