It must have been a struggle for them because they both have inconsiderate, apathetic, and uncaring "supposed friends". I think it's not too hard to notice that your friend is not on a stable place no matter how they act okay, if you're really truly cared for them you would know it at a glance and you'd get that instant feeling that some thing's not right.
I'm rooting for the both of them to their path to healing 💞✊
p.s
It won't make you a loser to care, empathise, and be kind to others. Also, be sensitive enough to know that regardless who's hurting more you have no right to invalidate them. There may be some who's pain made them the worst person, don't invalidate them of their pain but don't excuse them for their bad deeds because of it. Regardless of our pains, we should be responsible of our choices and be accountable for it.
I'm rooting for the both of them to their path to healing 💞✊
p.s
It won't make you a loser to care, empathise, and be kind to others. Also, be sensitive enough to know that regardless who's hurting more you have no right to invalidate them. There may be some who's pain made them the worst person, don't invalidate them of their pain but don't excuse them for their bad deeds because of it. Regardless of our pains, we should be responsible of our choices and be accountable for it.
Ang lihim na pagtingin, kailan aaminin?