Hey I need advice, So there was this guy who i talked every day for 5 years, confessed and we just couldn't meet in those years due to our location but we're going to in six months and then he drops a statement that he doesn't trust me at all to tell me about himself more than necessary and as stupid as I was I never questioned actually I did but he kept shutting me down that I eventually stopped asking, but now he wants to talk again
Ofcourse I blocked him from everything
But should I talk to him about what ge want to say or not
@Radhika Mittal so he proposed u and said he doesn't trust you what kind of bullshit is talking about?? Is he out of his da** mind ?? Like if doesn't trust uh why propose uh ?? He is just being idiotic
@Radhika Mittal but how would you get to know him if he is not sharing? How will you even build trust if you don't start communicating? Nah he is wasting your time, trust is build over time but it needs communication and clearly he lacks it so just don't talk to him cause he isn't taking you seriously
@Radhika Mittal my dear in life sometimes we hate unanswered questions......but tbh some questions aren't meant to be answered....you dont need closure from this guy what you need is to move on with your life don't allow yourself to be manipulated and move to the beat of his drum your life has it's own rhythm and he doesn't seem like he comes to synchronize or improve your rhythm but to disrupt and possibly destroy it. Your better off leaving that one in the sea better will surely come don't compromise your standards for someone like that.
@Radhika Mittal that sounds like bipolar thing to say.. honestly, in my opinion don't meet him cus if you do, that's just gonna cause more problems on your end when he just says, "I still don't trust you" sh*t.
@Radhika Mittal I was in this situation for 3 months... We talked first a lot everyday but then one day he confessed and me out of fun accepted him (I know that's wrong but 😭). I acted like how a couple would. If one day if he wouldn't have confessed about lying many things I probably would have been with him till now... 🫠 We never met but I knew him from my tution class.
In the end I took that opportunity to cut him off completely.
But that ahh made a fake account and tried stalking me after 1 and half year. I got to know and blocked it again. Cool byeeeee
