Comment by No need on Sand Castle - Chapter 33

Comment on ChapterSand Castle - Chapter 33

I don't know but in my point of view he is the type of guy who likes bad one and when bad ones start to return feelings towards them he start to step back little by little and its kinda toxicity relationship but its clear that he has started loosing feelings and want to get rid of him i exactly don't know if its true or not but because i am also towards red flags i kinda feels the same as he do i also leave them hanging on the rope and that's it

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Is not that he is into bad guys, the issue is bigger than that. It can be related to the way your parents' relationship is and it may be by the way they raise you whit out teaching you how to feel loved and confident. He just doesn't know how to care for himself and he doesn't understand that someone who supposedly loves him would hurt him on purpose, maybe because that's the way their parents were. It takes a lot of inner reflection and also therapy to acknowledge that you are an adult now and you have the right to set boundaries and decide not to let anyone hurt you anymore. You are your best friend, treat you gently and lovely and be sure that your life is only yours to live.