Ayn would be considered my ideal guy who fits all those categories.
But yes, I can totally see the attraction for a calm guy who's ignorant and cold with everyone but you. From your description, I can see a quiet literature guy or busy CEO [honestly these are what I can imagine since I read too many manhuas🤣]. Which one do you prefer? Or if it's another image in your mind, share it with me! It's not ordinary at all, and it's very unique based on what you want in a person. I think that it's extremely attractive when a guy only has eyes for you and changes when you're around. It makes you feel all warm and special. A pity that most guys in real life aren't like that. If they are, either I haven't seen them or they're simps who don't have a life🤣