@Jerome i basically was saying that she shouldn't encourage bad behaviour because someone has a traumatic past and people who are dealing with trauma should first try to heal and work on themselves before giving people advice based off of there life experiences and making rash decisions..im sure they knew that people wouldn't accept their relationship so easily but because that girl is dwelling on past experiences she cant move on and be positive about anything for the people around her sake like it kinda looks like she just had to fu** up the mood cause she is miserable so they should be too