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@Luvop the one who's not open and honest is the uke.... honestly I'm my best friend ghosts me without a word, I wold flip the fu** off. 
I wouldn't immediately think she left t me because I'm soooo cool she must obviously love me. No... I would think something happened and I would try to do everything to get her back. 
To think he's aware of the fact is wrong. He has no idea. Not sure if he even knows tye uke likes men (correct me if I'm wrong on that) 

This isn't the tops fault. He's reacting like a normal person would after losing someone he's seen like a brother for decades. 
The uke is the one hurting himself and he needs to talk to the top or let go. He can't stay the way he is now because it will eat his soul and bestie won't even know what happened.
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@deleted user I can see your viewpoint on this. But realistically if that were the case the top shouldn't have no need to get upset if the bottom gets close with other people if their relationship is strictly a friendship . It's also obvious he has no feelings for his partner, and might be marrying her for his own reasons that do not include love. So he technically is not being open and honest with his best friend. I get that the bottom left without a word and is hurting himself by not saying anything, that's his own fault and I agree. But I feel that it's so clearly obvious that the top knows and strings him along, at least until he finishes whatever he has planned and could admit his feelings as well. What do you think ?