I feel like everyone is getting off on the wrong foot. Sure he was wrong but if you sees in his point of veiw he knew nothing about what she was going through he only heard from others since she was far away and the rumors don't help both Mc and him have a bunch of misunderstanding and I think they actually need to talk since she knows nothing about her family and he is actually willing to change sure he is 5 years late but I mean I don't expect her to love him but it would be best to sort the past out and let both get peace cuz at this point nothing is being sort out.