@Kuquburra
I don't understand how he deserves it. He's a spoiled child yes, but his harm towards her isn't deliberate while hers is. Why should he bare the hate of another person who he's never actually hurt himself. He's an annoying child, CHILD, doesn't mean he has to bare what she feels because of her ignorant and selfish father.
Correct me if I'm wrong, but she is/was a grown person was she not? If she is, then acting as she is when she's already been grown is just crazy. Blaming a child and putting your resentment and hatred towards her father onto someone else is just wrong and unnecessary on her part.