@I'm gonna read bl for ever Yes, and by default I call everyone some sort of gender neutral pronoun online like "buddy" Or "dude" Or "bro" (Which is indeed gender neutral) so if you're not a guy I'm sorry for having offended you, but not knowing any better I tried my best to avoid these circumstances And if I'm mistaken and what you were shocked by is that I'm a guy, then sorry but such is life