@ひなこさん ok as a passion lover I kind of agree with you and all since in passion ilay truly is not the best. However in the next two novels (yes there are 3 novels but one explains xinlus relationship and not ilays and takes) ilay gets a character development. He stops raping him and he is actually treating him like his lover. :)
Honestly I don't know anymore. I enjoy yaoi but it has to have a good and interesting story tbh.