First of all, I hope his piece of shitt sperm-donor dies, the audacity to be having an affair for 5 fuvking years and instead of owing up to his shitt, he decided to blame his child is fuvking criminal and he should be jail for fuvking life 
, I'm also gonna advocate for people putting their dreams and aspirations first, I'm so sad for his mom, after all the years spent only to be repayed with betrayal and pain, I hope she heals 
and as for red-hair, people will not always wait for you to decide if you're ready or still be a coward, life goes on, it's up to you to decide if you moved on with life or be stuck in one place but don't expect others to wait for you to figure it out
, I'm also gonna advocate for people putting their dreams and aspirations first, I'm so sad for his mom, after all the years spent only to be repayed with betrayal and pain, I hope she heals and as for red-hair, people will not always wait for you to decide if you're ready or still be a coward, life goes on, it's up to you to decide if you moved on with life or be stuck in one place but don't expect others to wait for you to figure it out