Comment by veronica on For Your Murder - Chapter 59

Comment on ChapterFor Your Murder - Chapter 59
veronica
veronicaSergeant·4 months ago(edited)
Ch. 59
I feel like he's breaking her mentally, actually yes. Abusers like him choose vulnerable people like her who are strong so they can crush them theirself.
Most of the times abusers choose vulnerable victims to manipulate, but sometimes there is a pattern where some feel challenged when a victim they target is as strong as them. It becomes then a challenge to bring their victim down to a submissive state and say "I won.".

About time he shows his real abuser side and stops pretending to isolate her. Lol.. this was bound to happen.

Stays that there is still imbalance;
She is a woman, him a man (societal + physical imbalance)
He is a lawyer, she is an unemployed teacher who works small jobs
She already went temporarily to jail for beating Seokyoung (her cousin), he got away with his murders (clean tracks)
Her brother is at juvie, has a bad reputation and nobody knows Inseop.

He holds leverage because if she stabs him, perhaps he could say "She's been mentally unstable for a long time. She lost her family and her brother is in juvenile jail. She also lost her job. I as a partner understood that she is sensitive at the moment."
Hmm, all abusive patterns are here!!
And typical logic,
I (Inseop) get what I want (Gijeong).
french 🇨🇦
i'm100% = analytical and factual. 
I analyze, I write A LOT [about behavior]. Straightforward.

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veronica
veronicaSergeant·4 months ago(edited)
@Bananahater  
Thank you!
I'll continue for each chapter, don't worry :).
If you have any questions or you'd want me to make them longer, then tell me! I'm always up for it without any issues.
This is my hobby and it takes 5 minutes or so for me ^-^
veronica
veronicaSergeant·1 month ago(edited)
@CALICO CAT In his case, Inseop uses abuse in a different manner (he is a Primary Psychopath). So ya the way he is quite insistant is very different. Almost all abusers are impulsive, get angry, jealous, etc. Not Inseop though. 
Most use the same abuse cycle mantra thingy. (man i need to get used to this new UI)