Most people don't realize that some sadists are just born like this, they have an overwhelming desire to to tease and hurt their partner. They can try to control themselves but by the end their going to unsatisfied and tempted to do something wrong e.g cheat or forcefully hurt their partner. Hajoon doesn't realize that he's a natural born sad*** and that he can't make his desires go away just like that and he feels thats because he doesn't love sodam even though not the case. I feel like people have problems with understanding sadists because they're always portrayed as antagonists and villains in bl and romance media, it's also why everyone is always getting on Hajoon's a**
Comment by Paimon on Vanilla Taste - Chapter 66
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@Paimon honestly really happy that someone commented this bc kink is more complex than most people realize. a lot of sadists/masochists have a complicated relationship with their proclivities and feelings, but having these urges doesn't define them as a person or necessarily as bad. though, consent is always key no matter what your play looks like.
@Paimon which is why I'm still reading and didn't drop it! ✨ Realism ✨