@mel I love that he's communicating, but like not raping someone is the BARE minimum. I had to say it! The fact that he's (mostly) calmly and clearly communicating what's wrong and what's bothering him is above that tho! I'd say a better example of showing maturity is that he didn't just shut Jihan out! Even if jihan totally deserves it
I will over explain everything, I'm bad with social cues and I clarify it mostly for my own comfort. I also take things too seriously, feel free to give me sh** over it lo
