After reading all the comments this is what I concluded...the people that are team Ian and Tj love the s*x and aren't thinking realistically. Let me explain so Ian has wanted to get away from the being of story from the gang life and just followed Tj. But when Tj wanted to stay for the money Ian was like nah I gotta go this life isn't for me and Tj set him up and basically put him in jail. He trapped MY BOY! 
Now Jo was supposed to leave but stayed for Ian. And Ian has been a little open with Jo which is huge because he only talks to Tj but they have a toxic relationship. I think Tj thinks he loves him but it's just an obsession and he's now possessive. I think Ian is more of the settle down type and that is not Tj. They are in a vicious cycle and Tj is going to keep holding back Ian and doing terrible things to him. But Jo is good for Ian he has nothing to do with gangs and he has a better outlook on life and Jo travels something that Ian never got to experience and he wants to get away...win win! Fr people that are team Tj and Ian scare me because if this keeps on happening Tj and is going to end up accidentally k*lling Ian if there "relationship" keeps on going. 
I must become strong..
