Why is most bl manhwa filled with ra**, coercion and toxic/abusive relationship. For a genre mostly written by women, it is very disturbing. If they are a 100 bl manhwa, 90 of it is filled with one or all of this troupe. I just don't get the fascination of it especially that ra** part and then they make it seem like it ok and was done all out of love. Slowly losing interest in reading bl, I think I'll just stick to watching Thai, Japan and Taiwan bl for my peace of mind.