@Zero colour me surprised. Who said I'm not a victim of it? I didn't mean it in the grape way. Why would I want that when ik how painful it is? I just meant the dynamic thingy. I DO NOT CONDONE OR SUPPORT GRAPE! I AM NOT SOME SICK IN THE HEAD PERSON.... OH WAIT, I ACTUALLY AM SICK IN THE HEAD LOL.
@Naughty Bunny if you are a victim of it then I'm sorry about that but the dynamic of it is a r*e and manipulative relationship where the one person doesn't feel safe at all and the other person likes it and wants them to grow more vulnerable by physically and emotionally abusing him. It's not a good dynamic at all and its not something you should wish on yourself either. Also, from my perspective it looked like you were asking to because of the fact that this whole chapter is basically r*e and you mentioned that he asked for it by himself
